Friday, May 29, 2009

Poor Thing! It's NOT About You (And Never Will Be)


Hey World and my #1 Hater,

I need to take a quick break from writing to address a PROBLEM. It has come to my attention that a former friend has been reading my blog and she has come to the INSANE conclusion that "Fight to Love" is a story that I am writing about her.

PAUSE. INSERT 30 MINUTES OF UNCONTROLLABLE LAUGHTER.

Seriously? Yeah. She has gone as far as to contact people, on their jobs, that don't even know me (OR HER), to tell them that I have taken the time to write a story about her. She is someone that I haven't even seen or heard from in years..... And everybody that knows me or has read the story would know, that is so far from the truth!!!!! I thought it was a JOKE when my BFF called me and told me what this chick did and how she was acting childishly. I ignored it then, but her persistence is becoming an issue.

I love to write and do it whenever I have the free time to do it. So trust me, you never crossed my mind when I started writing. Yes, it is a HUGE coincidence that your ex's names are Jay and Carlos. Pretty common names - don'tcha think? LOL! I could see if your man's name was Rutherford, DeVonte, Mandela or something UNCOMMON and I used those names - but that is not the case. I could also see if ANY of your men were fine, tall, dark and sexy - BUT THEY'RE NOT!!!! LMAO!

PAUSE. INSERT 30 MINUTES OF UNCONTROLLABLE LAUGHTER.

Then, my dear readers, you also have to wonder if this crazy and deranged individual even looks or acts like Trina, has had experiences like Trina, gets paid for sex and goes shopping like Trina, can pull professional ballers like Trina or is living the life that Trina lives. Let's just say: NOT!!!!!!

So this poor thing is basically calling herself a whore that just happened to have 2 men that were named Jay and Carlos. WOW!

No - I would not normally take the time out to include this information in my blog - however - I find out TODAY that she is still insisting that I am writing about her and her men and sent one of my BFF's for LIFE a long ass email about me and this blog. Who has time to do that? A person that is obviously insecure, jealous, lonely, bored and UNEMPLOYED.

At no point have I EVER written about you, your men, or your life. And even though we aren't friends, I would not take the time to write anything negative about you until NOW. This has really gone too far and I need you to get a GRIP ON REALITY. You can thank my BFF for not giving me your phone number.

I have been writing this story for MONTHS and would never - have never - and will never include you in it. Everything is not about you. Our friendship fizzled many years ago and my life has been truly blessed ever since. I would appreciate if you would stop HATING, GOSSIPING, LYING and trying to interfere in my life. That's what little girls in high school do. By the way, you had to be stalking me on Facebook or Twitter to even find this blog. Who does that anyway????

Keep my name out your mouth and emails. Stop being pressed. I don't even hate you girl, I feel sorry for you. Life will get better, but only after you leave me the hell alone. Me and my "Dawg / BFF / Homeskillet for LIFE" were friends before I even knew you and will always be friends, no matter how much salt you are pouring in her ear. I hope you read this and comprehend, because this is the end.

Now.... back to our regularly scheduled programming.

Friday, May 8, 2009

Special Post: It's a CHOICE

I have to admit that I haven't laughed like this in a LONG TIME. I find it very entertaining when men try to justify why women should go Dutch or pay for dates. Yes - I said DATES. I was raised to believe in courting. And part of courting, before commitment, involves dating. My mother and grandmother wouldn't even think of letting me go out with any lame that even suggested that I should pay or contribute. They always taught me to know my worth and never settle for less. So that has always been my CHOICE and I have never lowered my standards. Relationships are for sharing and caring. And I have NO PROBLEM paying for someone that I am in a RELATIONSHIP WITH. And if you don't agree with MY CHOICE, that's fine. To each their own. And yes - I am very capable of paying. I work full time and OWN my home and vehicle. I'm not a goldigger by a long shot. I just choose not to pay for a date. And yes, I have a man. And we are very happy and have been for YEARS.

The only LAME on the post is
Michael Fitzgerald
Michael Fitzgerald


So here's the post from Facebook:

Miki Deucesrwild Delane

Miki Deucesrwild Delane : A woman is still INDEPENDENT when she expects you to pay for the date. How do you think she got her own? Not by treating your BROKE ASS!

Domonic CKbully Brown
Domonic CKbully Brown
I got a friend call "Dutch" on the 1st few dates lmao *in Rocko's voice* You do you....and imma do me! lol
Miki Deucesrwild Delane
Hey... as long as thats understood by both ppl... its all good.

Personally... I wouldnt agree to it. But not every woman knows her worth!
Domonic CKbully Brown
Domonic CKbully Brown
I usually ALWAYS pay on dates...that's just how i was raised...but there are exceptions. Random scal e wags get treated as such lmao
Lang Maith
Lang Maith
Miki - you don't treat at all? Ever? Just curious!
Miki Deucesrwild Delane
I feel u on the skallywags tho... LOL!

Lang, only my man. Never a "date". My man can have whatever he likes!
Domonic CKbully Brown
Domonic CKbully Brown
And 80% of women are Random Scal-e-wags lol
The other 20% that deserve it get it ha ha
Miki Deucesrwild Delane
Yeah... u right.
Charles R. Murray
Charles R. Murray
So what is the woman supposed to bring to the table? I mean I'll pay but a woman that offers to pay will beat one that "expects" me to pay.
Michael Fitzgerald
Michael Fitzgerald
It don't mean you don't know you're worth when you go Dutch. It means you find out fully how you're able to treat yourself. There should be times that arrive where both individuals offer to pay for one another though. That's when you know it's a bond there. To expect it off top...you wildin.
Lang Maith
Lang Maith
oh OK...cool! i'm with that. I'm the same way. If it isn't my lady then she better get her ass to the nearest ATM unless i have put it ut there early that I'm treatin'.
Miki Deucesrwild Delane
Yeah, times have changed. *le sigh*

When I was in High School and college, a dude would NEVER ask a woman on a date and expect her to pay or go Dutch. That was WACK and you would get clowned on.

Nowadays, these young chicks think thats OK. A dude had to court a lady to get her to commit. But I guess since its a sex-free-for-all , that doesnt apply???... Read More

HMMMM IDK!
Miki Deucesrwild Delane
Well Mike... I'm wildin then! LLS

I never had problems dating, getting a man, or having long term relationships.

If I wanna go Dutch, I can go out with my GF's... but we always get sponsored at the bar anywayyyyyy LLS!
Michael Fitzgerald
Michael Fitzgerald
I court. And I see folks my age(32) so aint no "young girl" about it. The day of the free meals and movies is over. That's something that was done even if the girl wasn't feeling the guy so she would enjoy the free afternoon on a gump. I aint the one. Plus I'm grown...I don't date. I seek like minded company. If we want to go out to see something together we go.
Michael Fitzgerald
Michael Fitzgerald
That falls under money grubbers. I've met women who would never take something free from a man. Not even a drink. Even if she feeling the guy she wants to see what his conversation is like, or what he's doing with himself, or if he's family oriented. Paying for a drink or a movie shows that I know how to empty my pockets. That provides nothing for growth between two folks.
Miki Deucesrwild Delane
Thats real cool too. But youre so wrong when u say that free meals are over.... so wrong!

Im not saying going Dutch is wrong and seeking like minded company is wrong. Thats cool for people that are ok with that.

But a woman like myself will not DATE a man that is not picking up the tab. ... Read More

I can do that with friends, co workers and GF's - NOT SOMEONE THATS ROMANTICALLY INTERESTED.

Thats a personal choice. And I really like it! LOL
Miki Deucesrwild Delane
LOLLLLLLLLL! Thats not money grubbing. I can definitely pay 4 my own! LOL

Thats a CHOICE. Like some men wont date 300 lb women. CHOICE. Some men dont date darkskin women. CHOICE. Some men only like white girls. CHOICE.

Tell em why you mad son! LLS!
Michael Fitzgerald
Michael Fitzgerald
I can't be upset with someone who feels prostituting their interest is funny.
Miki Deucesrwild Delane
Nice play on words! Kudos.

Its interesting that men get so upset when a woman has certain standards that are inflexible and financially oriented.

But women are judged, rated and chosen on so many physical and sexual levels.... Read More

Cool beans man. I aint mad at ya!
Miki Deucesrwild Delane
SIDEBAR: Please read all comments before you jump out there.

Now back to our regularly scheduled program.....
Michael Fitzgerald
Michael Fitzgerald
Mad? Wow really? Shucks naw. I don't want ya.
Miki Deucesrwild Delane
LLS! Great news! Cuz I didnt add you....

NEEEEEEEXT!
Tameshia Onlyoneme Blackshear
Bwhahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!! And another one bites the dust...........
Miki Deucesrwild Delane
LLS! He probably still typin a comeback! FUCK THAT NIGGAAAAAAA! He salty!

DELETE
Tameshia Onlyoneme Blackshear
yea he was getting Ralphie T there. Must have gotten taken for the lil change he do have before? *shrugs*
Johnetta Semper
Johnetta Semper
LMAO @ Miki and Tameshia...You shole RIGHT!!
Miki Deucesrwild Delane
LLSSSSSSSS! I cant breeeeeeve!

Yep somebody got his pocket change and now he mad. Like I give a fuck!

These internet niggas betta get a GRIP on reality! Cuz I could care less about your lame ass philosophy on dating.... Read More

I WILL NOT SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS THAN WHAT I DESERVE!
Johnetta Semper
Johnetta Semper
*gives Miki a 2 hand high five* REPEAT.....
I WILL NOT SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS THAN WHAT I DESERVE!
Miki Deucesrwild Delane
^5 & ^5!
Miki Deucesrwild Delane
Miki Deucesrwild Delane
I'm adding this one to the blog as a special post....