Friday, May 29, 2009
Poor Thing! It's NOT About You (And Never Will Be)
Hey World and my #1 Hater,
I need to take a quick break from writing to address a PROBLEM. It has come to my attention that a former friend has been reading my blog and she has come to the INSANE conclusion that "Fight to Love" is a story that I am writing about her.
PAUSE. INSERT 30 MINUTES OF UNCONTROLLABLE LAUGHTER.
Seriously? Yeah. She has gone as far as to contact people, on their jobs, that don't even know me (OR HER), to tell them that I have taken the time to write a story about her. She is someone that I haven't even seen or heard from in years..... And everybody that knows me or has read the story would know, that is so far from the truth!!!!! I thought it was a JOKE when my BFF called me and told me what this chick did and how she was acting childishly. I ignored it then, but her persistence is becoming an issue.
I love to write and do it whenever I have the free time to do it. So trust me, you never crossed my mind when I started writing. Yes, it is a HUGE coincidence that your ex's names are Jay and Carlos. Pretty common names - don'tcha think? LOL! I could see if your man's name was Rutherford, DeVonte, Mandela or something UNCOMMON and I used those names - but that is not the case. I could also see if ANY of your men were fine, tall, dark and sexy - BUT THEY'RE NOT!!!! LMAO!
PAUSE. INSERT 30 MINUTES OF UNCONTROLLABLE LAUGHTER.
Then, my dear readers, you also have to wonder if this crazy and deranged individual even looks or acts like Trina, has had experiences like Trina, gets paid for sex and goes shopping like Trina, can pull professional ballers like Trina or is living the life that Trina lives. Let's just say: NOT!!!!!!
So this poor thing is basically calling herself a whore that just happened to have 2 men that were named Jay and Carlos. WOW!
No - I would not normally take the time out to include this information in my blog - however - I find out TODAY that she is still insisting that I am writing about her and her men and sent one of my BFF's for LIFE a long ass email about me and this blog. Who has time to do that? A person that is obviously insecure, jealous, lonely, bored and UNEMPLOYED.
At no point have I EVER written about you, your men, or your life. And even though we aren't friends, I would not take the time to write anything negative about you until NOW. This has really gone too far and I need you to get a GRIP ON REALITY. You can thank my BFF for not giving me your phone number.
I have been writing this story for MONTHS and would never - have never - and will never include you in it. Everything is not about you. Our friendship fizzled many years ago and my life has been truly blessed ever since. I would appreciate if you would stop HATING, GOSSIPING, LYING and trying to interfere in my life. That's what little girls in high school do. By the way, you had to be stalking me on Facebook or Twitter to even find this blog. Who does that anyway????
Keep my name out your mouth and emails. Stop being pressed. I don't even hate you girl, I feel sorry for you. Life will get better, but only after you leave me the hell alone. Me and my "Dawg / BFF / Homeskillet for LIFE" were friends before I even knew you and will always be friends, no matter how much salt you are pouring in her ear. I hope you read this and comprehend, because this is the end.
Now.... back to our regularly scheduled programming.
Friday, May 8, 2009
Special Post: It's a CHOICE
I have to admit that I haven't laughed like this in a LONG TIME. I find it very entertaining when men try to justify why women should go Dutch or pay for dates. Yes - I said DATES. I was raised to believe in courting. And part of courting, before commitment, involves dating. My mother and grandmother wouldn't even think of letting me go out with any lame that even suggested that I should pay or contribute. They always taught me to know my worth and never settle for less. So that has always been my CHOICE and I have never lowered my standards. Relationships are for sharing and caring. And I have NO PROBLEM paying for someone that I am in a RELATIONSHIP WITH. And if you don't agree with MY CHOICE, that's fine. To each their own. And yes - I am very capable of paying. I work full time and OWN my home and vehicle. I'm not a goldigger by a long shot. I just choose not to pay for a date. And yes, I have a man. And we are very happy and have been for YEARS.
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Miki Deucesrwild Delane : A woman is still INDEPENDENT when she expects you to pay for the date. How do you think she got her own? Not by treating your BROKE ASS!
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Personally... I wouldnt agree to it. But not every woman knows her worth!
Lang, only my man. Never a "date". My man can have whatever he likes!
The other 20% that deserve it get it ha ha
When I was in High School and college, a dude would NEVER ask a woman on a date and expect her to pay or go Dutch. That was WACK and you would get clowned on.
Nowadays, these young chicks think thats OK. A dude had to court a lady to get her to commit. But I guess since its a sex-free-for-all , that doesnt apply???... Read More
HMMMM IDK!
I never had problems dating, getting a man, or having long term relationships.
If I wanna go Dutch, I can go out with my GF's... but we always get sponsored at the bar anywayyyyyy LLS!
Im not saying going Dutch is wrong and seeking like minded company is wrong. Thats cool for people that are ok with that.
But a woman like myself will not DATE a man that is not picking up the tab. ... Read More
I can do that with friends, co workers and GF's - NOT SOMEONE THATS ROMANTICALLY INTERESTED.
Thats a personal choice. And I really like it! LOL
Thats a CHOICE. Like some men wont date 300 lb women. CHOICE. Some men dont date darkskin women. CHOICE. Some men only like white girls. CHOICE.
Tell em why you mad son! LLS!
Its interesting that men get so upset when a woman has certain standards that are inflexible and financially oriented.
But women are judged, rated and chosen on so many physical and sexual levels.... Read More
Cool beans man. I aint mad at ya!
Now back to our regularly scheduled program.....
NEEEEEEEXT!
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Yep somebody got his pocket change and now he mad. Like I give a fuck!
These internet niggas betta get a GRIP on reality! Cuz I could care less about your lame ass philosophy on dating.... Read More
I WILL NOT SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS THAN WHAT I DESERVE!
I WILL NOT SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS THAN WHAT I DESERVE!